Someone to watch over me

Someone to watch over me

One of the most important jobs we have as parents is making sure our children are well cared for and protected. But how do we ensure this continues long after we are gone? Do we like thinking about it? Oh hell no we don’t but ignoring it would result in an unthinkable situation for those you love the most.

First of all you have to have a valid will in place. If a parent dies without a will, it can create numerous challenges.
For example, the child’s inheritance will be paid into the State Guardian Fund, which can mean a lengthy process before funds can be accessed. When you have minor children, it is also vital that you nominate a guardian. Should you pass away without doing this, it triggers a debate around who will look after your children and this is not a decision you want to leave to someone else.”
Here’s what you need to know when choosing a guardian for your child:

Choosing a Guardian
1. A natural guardian is a biological parent – whether married or not, both parents have parental rights and responsibilities.
2. A parent who is the sole surviving

guardian may appoint a fit and proper person as a guardian, should they pass away.
3. An appointment of a guardian in a will does not remove the surviving parent as a guardian.
4. Co-guardianship is possible but must be practical, for example the individuals should live close to each other.
5. The decision should always be in the child’s best interest. If the surviving parent is not a suitable guardian then, as the upper guardian of all minors, the court may give the guardianship to any other person who applies.
Parents can also consider drawing up a testamentary trust as part of an instruction in their will to preserve wealth, protect the child’s inheritance and eliminate the possibility of this inheritance being placed in the State Guardians Fund. The

trust is created when you pass away and will remain in place until the child reaches a certain age. There are formalities that must be met to ensure the trust can be created on your passing and so it is advisable that you work with an estate planning expert to help you draft your will.
The rights of adoptive children
Whether a child is adopted or a biological child, all children are treated the same in terms of the right to inherit. An adopted child can inherit from his/ her adoptive parents and their parents’ blood relatives. The child would also be able to inherit from their step-parent, should the step-parent formally adopt the child. Similarly, the adoptive parent can inherit from

that adopted child.
The Children’s Act is currently under review and amendments seek to further address the promotion and protection of a child’s rights to physical and psychological integrity. It also aims to regulate the position of unmarried fathers and provide clarity concerning guardianship and parental responsibilities and The Children’s Amendment Bill will be a significant change towards protecting the rights of our children.
Planning for the unthinkable may be an uncomfortable task but it will result in peace of mind knowing that your children will be in good hands if yours aren’t there to hold.